You can fight with money. You can cheat on your money by racking up debt. You can lie to money by pretending you have a different money story. And you can hide from money by not looking at the bills and receipts and balances.   Or you can be honest with money.   You, Read More

Massive action sounds like it’s excessive action. But it’s usually not. Massive action is taking action until you achieve your goal. It can be slow or fast. But the hallmark of massive action is that you keep going until you get where you want to go. Most people take action when they try to, Read More

Outcomes you try to force are rarely as good as the outcomes that happen naturally. Take dating.  Being overeager can sabotage a date. If you go out with someone who talks about buying a house together on the first date, it’s a bit of a turnoff. To get the outcome you want, the secret, Read More

I never used to curse. I always thought that people who swore just hadn’t put enough thought into articulating exactly what they felt. It was an easy way out. It was inefficient. I simply had no desire to curse. Then I had children. I thought I shouldn’t swear in front of a child. If, Read More

I have been feeling a little trapped. There are a lot of things I want to do. My son is in his senior year, so I want to see all of his rugby games. I want to savor all of those “lasts”. My daughter is ill and needs lots of help and love. My, Read More

Natural pleasures are great. Healthy food, exercise, cleanliness, accomplishment, connection, etc. These are the things that people were made to enjoy. These days, mankind has focused its efforts on creating concentrated pleasure. Instead of natural sweets like fruit, we eat processed foods that have ten times the sweetness you find in nature. Instead of, Read More

It’s true. Try it. If you are feeling the deep kind of gratitude… the kind that you feel deep down inside… you can’t simultaneously feel fear. Fear OR Gratitude. One or the other. This is such good information! I choose gratitude! What I do is store up the really deeply grateful events I have, Read More

I keep hearing that… money is energy. Originally, I thought they meant that money was some mystical, spiritual, ghost thingy floating around deciding who to go to based on who had meditated the best or who’s energy aligned with the energy of what they want. And for some people, that might be. But, I, Read More

Without robbing a bank.   Let’s talk about money.   Originally, humans traded things. Furs for gunpowder. Childcare for food. But it was unwieldy to carry around a live chicken to get a doctor’s care. So money is just a way to trade that fits in your pocket. Or your Gucci bag.   In, Read More