Try something you haven’t done before. Something you haven’t done because you think you are going to suck at it. Or feel uncomfortable. Make it a stretch. But before you do, make an agreement with yourself that you aren’t going to beat yourself up for it. It can be big… ask for a raise. It, Read More
Freedom.I love the feeling. Yes, I have become used to freedom here in the US. We don’t appreciate it quite as intensely until we don’t have it.Or it is threatened. But recently I have been using the feeling of freedom as a steering mechanism. As a compass. What feels like freedom?That’s what I steer, Read More
Things are easy right now.There is an ease to almost everything I do. And it’s getting boring. So I am thinking of biting off a BIG new project. And that seems like it’s going to take a lot of effort. The kind of effort that eventually slows me down to a slow trudge uphill, Read More
I have been certified as an Equus Coach!!! Thanks to all who were a part of my two-year journey. It took a lot of client hours as well as learning about and working with horses to reach my goal. Thanks to all my clients who let me experiment and try out new things and, Read More
I know you feel for the people who are not as fortunate as you. You feel guilty charging for your services or asking for a raise since they are struggling. But taking less money for yourself usually doesn’t even things out.Denying yourself pleasure doesn’t create a just world. Please do give if you can, Read More
For most women, part of feeling safe is having enough money. What does money safety look like to you? Is it having enough to pay the bills?Enough to buy your kids new cars so they are safe?Having enough at retirement so you can travel?Funding a retirement that is more than social security?Living in a, Read More
You have critiqued yourself up and down. You need more willpower.More patience.More time for yourself.More money. Whatever it is, you are trying to be more than you are now. And you are your own most ardent critic. Isn’t that exhausting?I know it exhausts me. Give your inner critic the day off. You are wonderful, Read More
I have been certified as an Equus Coach!!! Thanks to all who were a part of my two-year journey. It took a lot of client hours as well as learning about and working with horses to reach my goal. Thanks to all my clients who let me experiment and try out new things and, Read More
A lot of my clients don’t feel worthy of the money they have. Only they don’t say it that way. They say they are worried that they will lose all of this money they inherited. Someone else earned it and they are afraid of sacrificing all of that person’s hard, hard work by screwing, Read More
My mother-in-law tells me that I DESERVE my new car.I know she means that as a compliment. She is a sweetheart. But I did nothing to deserve this car except save for it. There are so many people more deserving than me.And I do think I deserve it.But we ALL deserve it. Having things has, Read More