90% of MARRIED women are in charge of their money at some time in their lives. Most women let men take the lead, but through the death of their spouse or divorce, the women become in charge. 100% of SINGLE women are in charge of their money. But the majority of women don’t have a, Read More
If fear wasn’t part of the equation, how would YOUR LIFE look different? If you weren’t afraid to look like a fool,or start a new career,or say, “I love you,”or wear what you really want to wear,or ask for a raise,or say, “I don’t know,”or be afraid to not be liked,or take a big, Read More
Someone who makes you feel flattered… that’s someone who has your power. Someone whose opinion matters to us.Someone we respect or want to emulate. When it’s someone who routinely makes us feel less than, we are on guard.We steel ourselves to not give that power away. Protecting ourselves from someone trying to disrespect us, Read More
I am originally from Pittsburgh, Pa. It still forms my view of the world. Pittsburgh feels like home in a deep way and resonates with me some 40 years after I moved south. I grew up saying “you guys” when I talked about a group of people. That still feels right because it’s so, Read More
I grew up in Pittsburgh… the home of Mr. Rogers. I have heard from an early age, Mr. Rogers’ advice to children that when things are scary, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” There are a lot of flavors of scary right now.Scary wars.Prices are soaring.Fearmongering politics.Serious illnesses.Worry, Read More
In a lot of ways money is power.It is the power to say no.It is the power to have choices. Want to attract more power?Do you want more resources? Want to say “yes” more to what you want? Do you want more peace, joy, and ease?Because these are all aspects of power. But the, Read More
Life isn’t about finding yourself. It’s about creating yourself. Welllll, I have been creating new things to share. I have a brand-new Instagram account called MoneyWhisperingWithEllenYale. (It’s the same name as my podcast.) You don’t have to put all those capital letters in it, but I thought it would make it easier for you to, Read More
When I am talking with my clients about money, at some point we end up talking about purpose. What is my grand purpose in life?Why am I here? (Figuring out your purpose helps you figure out how it will be most joyful to create money and spend money.) But figuring out your grand purpose, Read More
If you are worried or concerned about money, think of money as a flock of sheep. You are the shepherd of your money. Feed your flock.Keep track of where they are wandering.If you care for them and nurture them, they may have baby lambs. If they stumble, hire a vet to get them back, Read More
To manifest something, you have to place the order for what you want. It’s like if you go into a restaurant and say, “I’m soooo hungry. I want some food.” The waitress says, “Fine. What do you want?” You say, “I’m really, really hungry. I want to eat.” The waitress says, “OK. What do, Read More